Carolyn Kaufman discusses Generational Healing as an effective modality especially for NOW!
Carolyn Kaufman discusses Generational Healing as an effective modality especially for NOW!
By Christina Gikas, C.Ht., Msc.D.
Close your eyes for a moment and see yourself exactly the way you want to be: happy, healthy, successful, in a mutually loving relationship. Add to this whatever else you desire for yourself, fame, fortune, admiration. All that you can see can be actualized through the power of your subconscious mind while in hypnosis. Whether you are considering a lifelong commitment to another, bringing a child into the world, moving on after a divorce or death of a spouse, continuing with your education, taking a new job, changing careers, starting a business, giving a speech, making a presentation, moving to another part of the country, or retiring, just focus on that which you desire, and know that you can manifest that which you create through positive thought.
Hypnotherapy is the quickest, most successful, drug-free, enduring method to create and maintain a peaceful, fulfilling, healthy life. It works by accessing information not readily available to the conscious mind, understanding situations more clearly, and changing one’s perception of what he/she thinks is to what really is.
You are the creator, director and producer of your life. You absolutely can create any reality you desire. Whatever visions you have for yourself can be achieved! You will be amazed at how easily and effectively negative thoughts and beliefs can be replaced by positive, self-actualizing beliefs.
So, go ahead, get started. Begin your future. Allow yourself to manifest all that you desire. Allow yourself to be the unique human being that you are. Allow yourself to live an authentic life, free of negativity. You can do it! You already have what it takes. Just communicate to your subconscious mind what you desire and focus intently on it.
Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “You will see it when you believe it,” so, start believing NOW!
By Diane Parks and Julie Tomlinson
What is a constellation?
Bert Hellinger developed the Family Constellation approach in 1978. Constellations reveal hidden entanglements and unresolved trauma that maintain painful generational patterns. These patterns wound our individual and collective family souls. Constellation work allows for movements that release the grip of these entanglements and deepens understanding. This process helps to heal soul wounds, find reconciliation within our relationships and restores the flow of love.
How does it work?
Constellations are an experiential process. With the support of others, constellations tap into an energetic “knowing field” to create a living portrait of what is being explored. This process shines light on the existing entanglements, the patterns that hold them in place, and if there are underlying traumas contributing to them. Constellations create shifts in the energy field, space to receive new perceptions and restores the natural abundance of love and compassion.
What is the Constellation process?
In advance of the workshop, interested clients request a constellation. The facilitator then has a brief exchange with the client to understand and clarify the focus and goal of the constellation. The facilitator uses what they learn to determine the constellation set-up. Doing this in advance eliminates the need to “tell the story” during the workshop and maintains the focus on the constellation itself.
During the workshop, the client selects participants to represent the factors identified and individuals in the relationship to be explored. Once all representatives are selected, the client intuitively places them in the knowing field, a large space in the center of the room. Little if any information is given to the representatives. The constellation begins as the representatives start to respond to sensations and impulses informed by the field.
What is the role of the representative?
Workshop participants have the opportunity to represent in constellations. The role of the representative is to report with as few words as possible what they are noticing in their bodies. Representatives do not act or role-play. Instead, they “sense into” their representation and move as they are compelled to. The in-form-ation communicated is not judged or interpreted by the representative. It is the client’s role to receive what is being shown by the representative. Representatives may be asked to represent emotions, illnesses, historical forces, internal struggles, parts of a system, etc., not just people.
Representing in a constellation is not passive. Both the client and the representatives experience the healing and shift in energy a constellation brings. Many representatives report that they often know in advance when they will be asked to do a representation. Many report a personal connection to the representation they are providing and experience a loosening of their own entanglements and a shift towards peace and reconciliation.
What is the knowing field?
The knowing field, a term created by Albrecht Mahr a leader in Family Constellation work, is the phenomenological energy field accessed during constellation work. This field of energy informs the facilitator, representatives, client, and those witnessing the constellation. The field provides wisdom and support for the best interests of all participating. The knowing field is what brings the constellation to life!
By Susan Macknin, R.N.
Developed by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger, Family and Systemic Constellations identifies and resolves current issues or negative patterns to give clients more peace and healing.
When there’s been a trauma, or someone in the family has been excluded, forgotten, cast out, or suffered a difficult fate, someone in a following generation will unconsciously and invariably step in and bring that person’s destiny back through living it out in this lifetime.
We know through genetics that all of our physical traits are carried in our DNA and inherited through the generations. Less understood is the science of Epigenetics, explaining that we also inherit our emotional traits. Pain and trauma can stay alive in a family for generations. We can unknowingly identify with previous family members’ emotional traits or fates, often repeating their destructive patterns and manifesting similar afflictions or unresolved issues.
These energetic forces entangle us in fates that date back over several generations and are the legacy of those unable to resolve them within their lifetimes. When this influence is acknowledged, emotional and physical suffering can be gently and compassionately transformed.
Any painful event touches every family member and continues to reverberate down to later generations. As a result, people often carry and reenact the original wounds of their ancestors. This can show up in relationship issues, health issues, family dynamics or any negative pattern you may be experiencing in your life.
Through Family and Systemic Constellation work you can stop the negative patterns and issues. It probes the family soul or conscience, brings those dynamics to light, and releases entanglements bringing long-term and often life changing resolution. Unlike traditional therapy, constellations get directly to the heart of the matter quickly.
A Constellation starts by building a living map of the client’s presenting issue. In a workshop setting, other participants are called upon to represent the client’s family members or issue. In a private session, the facilitator and the client will choose objects to represent the family members. Regardless of how representatives are chosen, the results are very obvious and profound. By having the client witness the dynamics as an outsider, the client sees the issue through a new lens and a new perspective.
Family and Systemic Constellations address current day issues at their source, in the family’s past. When issues linger and fail to respond to our best efforts to heal, they are likely linked to events and conditions from the past.
by Barry Tydings
New relationships will end on the hidden agenda not resolved from your previous relationship endings. The excitement of beginning a new relationship is that you can be whoever you want to be free from disclosing the real you and the emotionally painful ending from previous relationships. You can create any identity but can only hold on to that new fantasy personality for about 90 days when the real you starts to leak into your new relationship. Then the ending begins once again. But, that ending can take days, months or even years creating a lot of emotional pain.
But, the reward on hiding your true nature is lots of fun, SEX, and fantasy creating an identity you want the other person to believe you are. For Women, it is your belief the real you has no value other than as a sexual predator to capture the male. This is the role you control to prove you are better than the competition. Yes, this is normal behavior for women in our society. Men who are looking for a good satisfying time without the strings attached prefer this experience. But, if the woman is a great performer then they are considered a valued keeper.
Getting close with someone at the beginning of a relationship is based on whatever your belief at the moment is a Conceptual Reality. This only leads to the same ending as the previous relationship. Your circle continues. The more you practice this the more frustrated you become pushing you into give up and settle for where you are fearful of the circle ending, you are tired. Yes, you eventually give up to a mundane unsatisfied life of slavery. You rationalize that you don’t want to repeat this again because you don’t know how to change the outcome and you’re getting older looking for security or life being alone.
Getting to the root cause will change your outcome allowing you to find Unconditional Love within. Once you discover that your love of self is enough that vibration will attract a partner in the same vibration you are.
Let go of your FEAR, Anxiety, and Depression as these conditions are ILLUSIONS placed in your consciousness by hidden beliefs/agendas to hold you back from being loved.
I’ve been Mentoring this process all my life to people just like you in every profession and lifestyle on 4 continents. Teaching “Meeting the REAL you” is my passion. I have NEVER had a failure.